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Busted!

2009-01-17T07:22:00.003-05:00

Friday was a fun day at work. I was thinking about some of my old restaurant patterns when I would make sure to have all of the work done early in the week so that I could be all about the shift on the Big days.

Yesterday I was prepared to have a chunk of my day dedicated to an audit that was cancelled so I had lunch with Teresa, helped with inventory and just spent some good time with people. It has been very cold in Chattanooga. Friday the high was 27 and a lot of the morning it was in the single digits. I was walking from a back hall into the hospital when a woman walked by wearing a short skirt and furry boots. I turned my head and must have had the look of what is the hell is she...and ran right into a doctor. I had about three employees sitting about 20 feet away that are still laughing at me. It was like a bad dream where you wake up naked at work.

2009 so far

2009-01-08T23:17:00.002-05:00

Well I have made it nine days into 09' and I have not yet made my mark or achieved my resolutions. I have not given up but I haven't made much progress. The best thing I have done is I have cut out my "Salted Carmel Hot Chocolate with 3 shots of Espresso". I don't know why it is so hard to quit an 800 calorie beverage that I might drink twice a day.

I have been working out okay. Tuesday I even woke up at 4:40am to go swim and do spin class. I am still working on an epic year. Filled with great success.

Titans Game

2009-01-05T19:56:00.002-05:00

I am going to the Titan's Game on Saturday. This is going to be my first NFL playoff game. We are in the 2nd row. It is supposed to rain like crazy. I don't care about the rain but I am worried about how Teresa is going to feel about sitting in a downpour for 4 hours. I am not talking about Oregon rain. We are forcasted to get 4-5" tonight. I will be planning my rain strategy this week.

Going to Atlanta for the day

2009-01-03T07:51:00.002-05:00

Teresa has two of her very good friends from college visiting family in Atlanta. They live in Denver and we always talk about going to visit. Which always reminds me of how bad I miss skiing. This is going to be my 4th season missed in a row. I have to make this a big priority for 2010. The kids might be ready by then.

Swimming

2009-01-02T07:18:00.002-05:00

I am 40 and thought I knew how to swim. I never have thought I am good at it but I am comfortable swimming in all kinds of conditions. In the 3 triathlons I have done I stunk in the swim and on the last one it was terrible swimming boat to boat. So I bought a DVD on swimming and have watched it 7 times. I was the example of what not to do on every drill. So on yesterdays workout I spent an hour in the pool working on my technique and swimming laps. I am really excited about improving before July's Triathlon with a .9 mile swim.

Monday I had 1851 calories.

Happy New Years

2009-01-01T11:04:00.002-05:00

Well here we are again. January 1st and I can look back on not hitting any resolutions. I am the king of over promise and under deliver to myself. However, I am not about to let this get me down. I have made my plan for 2009 and it is complex and will include a lot of my biggest weakness...discipline. The resolutions are:

1. Health Management.

Weight in the 200's. I am at 252. I am on my-calorie-counter.com where I have a $50 bet with Ken on consecutive days of entry. I know the hows...I just need to be disciplined and committed.

I am at 26% body fat...which is officially obese.

2. Finish my screenplay. I have been working on it for 5 years. I guess I can't say working on it. I should say started it 5 years ago. This is a personal discipline that is fulfilling.

3. E-bay sales of $40,000 and profit of $15,000.

I must commit to my time at night and the weekends to get items listed.

Why wouldn't I want to net $15,000 for working 9 -11 hours a week on my couch.

I have other small personal goals:

265 blogs in 2009. Not for readers but for keeping myself honest and working on my creativity and writing skills.

Fitness events (3 state / 3 mountain, Chattanooga Waterfront triathlon, Sportsbarn Sprint Triathlon and a few others).

Career Peace

You know the drill...live to my potential. I didn't mention father and husband skills because these all work into that.

2 days til Chicago

2008-12-02T06:01:00.003-05:00

I really can't wait for my little get away to Chicago and Green Bay to see my Brothers and Nephew. Here is the Agenda.

Thursday - get into Chicago at 2:15 look for a hotdog on the to get my luggage. We will all meet at O'Hare and go to the Hotel...Walk around Michigan and Eat dinner at Na Ha.

Friday - We are going to Milwaukee for lunch and then onto Manitowoc to watch my Nephew Jordon play basketball (He is a Junior at Manitowoc Lutheran). Then we will party like we are in Manitowoc.

Saturday - We will watch my Nephew Bowl league and then bowl with him. We will hopefully get to play some ball this day. We may go to the Wisc-GB basketball game.

Sunday - We are going to Lambeau to see the Packers...and then drive back to Chicago.

Monday - Come home.

How fun is this when you don't get to see your siblings much. I can't wait.

The weather is even looking good.

Thanksgiving is over

2008-12-01T05:59:00.002-05:00

Thanksgiving weekend is over I am only working three days this week because I am going north to see Ken, Shea and Jordon on Thursday. Shea, Ken and I are going to meet in Chicago. So I am in tear it up mode at work as I will be attempting the finish your work in three days routine in consecutive weeks. More to come on this trip. I am really got into facebook this weekend. This is a big week...Work, get caught up on E-bay and go see my brothers.

Driving Home

2008-10-19T16:15:00.002-05:00

Yesterday we spent the day with Ken, Cathy, Carly, Jordon, Chuck and Sandy. We had a great time at the Knoxville Zoo and Chuck and Sandy's house. While driving home I had a lot of time to reflect on some life things. I realize that I have had an amazing life and been able to experience some amazing things on one hand while on the other I am a huge underachiever and have completed very few things that I have started. I am now 40 years old and am thinking I need to go back and complete some of these task that I have on the table. For my personal peace I must complete some things:

Lose this weight?
Finish my screenplay?
I have about 6 books with 3 or more chapters to finish?
Drive my e-bay business?
Work success?
my degree?

I am not sure where to drive this but I do know that I am an underachiever and not to "get a lot closer to my potential".

As a new venture that I plan on completing I am going to do one top 10 list a week about my life. I will be writing this on Sundays.

My favorite Religious sayings

2008-08-25T21:37:00.005-05:00

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I have been trying to ride

2008-05-18T10:53:00.002-05:00

For my 40th birthday I really wanted a new bike. I had the Klein since 1990. That is a long time...3 rear derailleurs, broken frame twice and rode over a hundred miles. I really skipped years at a time without significant mile. I told Teresa everything I could to get a new bike:

1. I would lose weight

2. I would stop looking at bikes on the Internet

3. I would ride the 3 state 3 mountain challenge

4. If I had a new bike I could ride up our mountain.

Well I did get a new bike and it is the bike of my dreams. We also got a great deal from Jensonusa in California. I got a 2007 Bianchi 928 with SRAM Rival. Full Carbon. Awesome.

I received the bike in March and have stopped looking at bikes and did the 3 State. I have logged about 200 miles this spring including up our mountain 3 times. I did the challenge in thunder storms. I have had a tough time getting on the bike with rain and child care. I have enjoyed it when I have been on it. I am heading up to Iowa June 7-8th to do a 200+ mile ride with Ken. I am in big trouble. I am going on a group ride today 35miles and am riding Saturday and Sunday next week. I need to get on it!!!!

I am back

2008-05-06T22:44:00.002-05:00

I quit doing the blog and I don't know why. I have plenty of material. So I will get it back on this week.

Oh My

2007-04-26T05:36:00.000-05:00

I have really been busy...selling and shipping Webkinz, work and spending time with the family. We have sold 61 Webkinz. We are getting close to even on what we have put in...we have 60 more to sell. Our inventory continues to grow. If we see them we buy them now that we know they will sell...we ship them mostly to the Northeast.

Idol gives back was rough. In the middle of the show as Teresa was crying and I was right behind her...she said it makes me want to go hug our babies...they were sleeping. We have so many reasons to appreciate what we have.

I am not surprised by no one getting cut. In fact within 10 minutes I was saying how I didn't think they could cut someone.

This is the week I usually am at National bowling. It is in Reno this year and I really like bowling at the big stadium. I always pretend that I am Munson from Kingpin. I cancelled my spot in November. I really am missing it more than I thought I would. I was on a great team.

Have a great day.

Wacky for Webkins

2007-04-21T07:23:00.000-05:00

A few weeks ago I bought Teresa a Webkins Cat that looked like Sassy. We had Sassy put to sleep and I thought is would be nice. Teresa got hooked on the games, feeding her cat and decorating her cats room. I later bought her a dog and got her one in her Easter basket. We looked on e-bay and found that they are hard to find and are double the price. So we decided to load up and sell on e-bay.

I have them at work in the gift shop...so I bought 30 and Teresa and her friends went all over town and bought them up. I got kicked out of a store for trying to buy a bunch after Teresa was there. That is a low point in my life...who am I Beanie Baby guy? As Timora might say "I am so Ken Klein right now". We have sold everything we have posted at a profit between 35% to 210%. I am posting Webkins every 6-8 hours and moving em out...My big fear is getting stuck with a bunch of worthless stuffed animals. I have made a spreadsheet to keep track of our 113 Webkins. My measurement is what % profit are we at vs investment...we have collected (82.94%). Have a good weekend.

Finally!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-18T20:58:00.000-05:00

I actually felt bad for him on the goodbye. Sonjaya is gone. Idol is great but is the least of my thoughts with the tragic events in Virginia. Go Hokies!!!

The Klein's have left the Nooga.

2007-04-14T16:01:00.000-05:00

So the Klein's have left and we had a great time. Here are the final scores:

Indoor golf champion - Jordon beat me at the Terrells.

I am the bubble breaker champion beating Ken and Jordon while setting the record in the final match.

2 on 2 Champs - Brian and Jordon...4 games to 1.

Sargent majors was a split - Ken and Cathy each won once.

One on one champ - Me? I was 2-1, Ken was 1-1 and Jordon was 1-2.

Golf - 1st Jordon, 2nd Me and 3rd Ken...all within a few strokes...I want a rematch.

Indoor kids basketball ...I beat Jordon.

UNO...1st Me, 2nd Teresa, 3rd Cathy, 4th Ken and bringing up the rear Jordon.

Trampoline basketball - Jordon out lasted me 2-1 at 1am this morning.

3 on 3 full court hoops - My team beat Jordons 2-1.

Air Hockey - I won the tourney beating Ken, Jordon and Cathy along the way.

Around the world video game - Jordon won by 2.

Indoor horse - I won at the Terrells we did not finish the game at our house.

Wow that is some serious game action in only seeing each other a few day...It was great.

American Idol just got uglier

2007-04-11T21:27:00.000-05:00

The one woman singer who looks like a star is gone...Bye Haley. I am not shocked by her being elimination, but will miss her performance factor. I can't believe that Sanjaya is hanging in...next week Phil will go.

Current Rankings

#1 Melinda
#2 Blake
#3 Jordin
#4 Lakisha
#5 Chris
#6 Phil
#7 Sanjaya

The Kleins are here for lunch tomorrow. I am making hamburgers and potato salad.

Kien es tu papa

2007-04-10T20:22:00.000-05:00

How was I supposed to watch American Idol after finding out that I am not Danny Lyn's Daddy. Congrats to Larry I wish him the best.

Today at work I was helping with with a sales survey where we put together a dog and pony show and set up a replica of the food stations we are going to add to their cafeteria. We had 45 minutes to convert a banquet room into 4 exhibition stations. It was fast and furious and crazy...but we pulled it off. It was one of the most bizarre caterings I have ever ran.

The Kleins are here in 2 days. Soddy Daisy may never be the same.

Easter Sunday

2007-04-09T19:35:00.000-05:00

I had the best Easter I have had in years...maybe the best I have ever had. We went to the Terrells' in Madisonville, TN. We ate at a little hometown restaurant, watched the Masters, a great Easter egg hunt, time with family and some 2on 2.

Anthony was so cute hunting eggs.

I loved seeing every one Cindy, Brian their children Cole and Riley...Ken, Cathy, Jordon and Carley...Chuck and Sandi...They were all great.

It was just fun being around everyone.

Now the low point...Ken and I got killed in 2 on 2. We lost the first 4 games and won the fifth. It was painful. It was hard watching Ken laying on the ground counting clouds. It was hard shooting like a joker. It was hard having Jordon play me on defense and shut me down. Brian was shooting the ball like he was good or something. It was a nightmare. Every time I tried to have a pep talk with myself Cindy would laugh at me. The only thing I can think would have changed things is if we would have been skins.

Ken and family get to Chattanooga on Thursday...I can't wait.

Go Melinda Go

2007-04-04T06:30:00.000-05:00

So Sanjaya wasn't the weakest singer last night. My top three things from last nights show was:

1. When Melinda finishes tearing up the stage and the crowd is going crazy. Melinda is looking around in shock..."me???, You like my singing????, I am shocked..." Doesn't she get it? She is a real Diva / Virtuoso.

2. When Simon told Sanjaya he was incredible and he got excited like Simon was serious.

3. Haley Scarnoto...hello...Does Simon have any manors? When asked about her performance he says "you have great legs". I hadn't noticed until he said something...I am only focused on her vocal performance.

For those wagering or who want to plan a going away party...say goodbye to Phil Stacey.

Teresa and I did spin class last night. It was fun.

I just can't hide it...

2007-04-03T06:35:00.000-05:00

I am so excited about the Iowa Klein's making an Easter trip to the South. When you think Easter you think ham...when you think ham...you think South. We have more kinds of ham than Portland has tofu.

We have a 2 on 2 game planned featuring the "bully brothers" vs Jordon and Brian. Our huge front line will be tough to stop.

Teresa and I have been doing a good job of working out. I am really proud of Teresa as she is hitting the gym harder than I have ever seen her. She has gone 3 days in a row and is really pushing herself. I have been doing well also...

Last night I had a big pop in my jaw. It hurt like a well diggers toe nail. I had to get up and take some Tylenol...However, this morning it feels great...better than before the pop...I noticed a bizarre surgery side effect today. When I used a q-tip in my right ear I felt it in my chin.

I just can't hide it...I am so excited...I'm about to lose control and I think I like it.

What a great night.

2007-03-30T19:37:00.000-05:00

The weather this time of year in the Southeast Tennessee Mountains is amazing. On the way home I look at the rock climbers and tonight we are sitting on the back deck listening to our music and playing on our computers. We played with Anthony in his sand box and I hit some golf balls in the back yard. It is a good day.

Timora Dolores

2007-03-29T21:05:00.000-05:00

My sister is the crafty CEO of Timora Dolores. I just saw her web site http://www.timoradolores.com/ and here is a great picture of her giving a speech or singing a song.

I love American idol. However, Sonjaya is gaining momentum...he wasn't even in the bottom 3. If it wouldn't accentuate my scar I would pull my hair out. I will miss good ole Chris as he was bringing chubby back. Here are the Rankings:

1. Melinda...so out in front she should get a couple of byes.

2. Blake...He will be huge after idol...He will be a cooler Jason Mraz.

3. LaKisha...wasn't a great performance...but Jordin singing Hey baby...kinda hurt

4. Jordin...she will bounce back next week.

5. Gina...I am surprised that she has creeped up this high.

6. Haley...I see your true colors and they are tan legs.

7. Phil...He is the favorite in Chattanooga and is improving fast.

8. Chris...Don't Speak

9. Sonjaya...okay now...for real...Ken said it best "He makes me uncomfortable"

I love Gwen Stephani. I thought she was great as the coach. She is so real...I am getting her poster for my office.

I will get back on track with my blog...My goal is 4 times a week starting now. Stay Classy.

How to understand American Idol

2007-03-22T17:47:00.000-05:00

If you are having trouble understanding American Idol you are not alone. It it important that you are not using my rankings for gaming purposes. My rankings are also not to be confused with who will be voted off; they are however very accurate and scientific facts as to who are the best according to me.

This week we have a few changes:

1. Melinda LW #1 she is separating herself.

2. Blake LW #3 very creative

3. Jordin LW #5 she has arrived.

4. Lakisha LW #2 Very good...she will fault er on some genres

5. Chris...Fro Patrol LW #6 right there

6. Gina LW #7 next week she is going to do Hole.

7. Haley LW #9 because of her voice...It is a singing competition

8. Chris...JT LW #10 Blah

9. Phil LW # 8 improving...in trouble next week.

10. Sonjaya LW #11 She is horrible. It is time to go. For real.

Stephanie was voted off...my #4 ranked Idol.

I am off to dinner...in downtown Savannah.

Dancing with the stars

2007-03-20T14:40:00.000-05:00

The time has come where I try to get Teresa to do the Samba with me around the house. Overall the show was alright. Unfortunately, the dancers are more stars than some of the stars... I love the dancers. The front runner out of the gate is easily Joey Fatone...he was in a boy band. Other than him it is wide open. The two week elimination deal is lame.

Everyone at home is sick. Everyone not named Gary Anthony. I have been trying to get home to take care of the family. Yesterday I made Chicken Noodle Soup and today I brought home milkshakes.

I leave for Savannah Georgia in the morning for work. I hopefully going to sit on the bench that Forest Gump sat in.

How about the Oregon Ducks...Watch out UNLV.

Sanjaya Lives

2007-03-14T22:03:00.000-05:00

Everyone knows Sanjaya should be off of American Idol. It is okay that he is still around as it is only a matter of time before the final five of Melinda, Lakisha, Blake, Jordon and Stephanie are battling it out. The new Rankings are:

This Week Last Week

1. Melinda 1

2. Lakisha 3

3. Blake 2

4. Stephanie 4

5. Jordon 6

6. Chris w/ Fro 5

7. Gina 9

8. Phil 8

9. Haley 11

10. Chris...J T 10

11. Sanjaya 12

Out is Brandon who was ranked 7th. I think Chris (Justin Timberlake) will be around much longer than his ranking...I just don't like him that much. Haley moved up due to her potential and I think she will work hard. The rankings are not based just on previous week although it is impacted by the previous week. There really are 3 groups 1-5 who have separated from the pack. Chris at 6 who could go either way and the bottom dwellers 7-11 that any could eat it with a bad performance.

I had to take the car into the shop today...did I curse myself? I don't feel good about it.

How to eat spaghetti

2007-03-12T19:58:00.000-05:00

It is well know within my family that I love spaghetti and know how to properly eat it. I take great pride in passing down to my children how to enjoy pasta...the torch is passed...may the legacy live.

Feelings

2007-03-10T05:54:00.000-05:00

I am starting to get a little feeling inside my mouth. I can feel the inside of my cheek and it hurts. It hurts from how many times I have bitten it. It is black and blue. I am sure I will stop biting it and it will get better. It is encouraging to be getting some feeling never the less. I have always been a little emotional so it is good to get a little more feelings.

It has been good getting back to work. There is a lot going on and a lot to do. I really feel good about it as none of it is that hard it will just take some dedication and time to really get us on track.

March Madness is coming.

The Finals

2007-03-08T21:53:00.000-05:00

Now that I have kicked the butt of my brain tumor I can focus on something very serious...American Idol. The final 12 are selected and America made two horrible mistakes.

Here the top 12 ranking:

Melinda

Blake

LaKisha

Stephanie

Chris - Jack Osborn

Jordon

Brandon

Phil

Gina

Chris - Justin Timberlake look alike

Haley

Senjiya

Senjiya and Haley should be on their way home and Sabrina should still be in. I know some might think Chris with the curly hair should be lower and Kisha should be higher however, Kisha while great will struggle late with the versatility and star power. Chris...I just like him. Melinda is solid.

He's back

2007-03-04T19:40:00.000-05:00

So I am going back to work in the morning. I have been warned many times about not going back too early. I am ready. I have made some great progress the last two weeks and it won't be long til I am 100%. My head is a little tender but nothing big...I feel a lot better than when I was working before the surgery. I even went and got a haircut today. It was the same lady that cut my hair before my surgery...she was scared and very careful. After I made her feel comfortable I became the circus act, "hey Bonnie come look at his head. He had a tumor."

Lyn and Casey had a cookout for us yesterday and it was good to see everyone from work away from work. It was fun to watch all of the kids playing and interacting...we have a lot to look forward to...Thanks everyone.

Everyone has a SAAB story

2007-03-03T08:14:00.000-05:00

I saw this article a couple of weeks that SAAB was offering an original SAAB owner who has driven their car a million miles a free SAAB. I was laughing for 8 minutes...I have put more money into my car than I can explain and although some of it can be linked to my lack of care for the car most of it is linked to a lemon of a car. Here is a little breakdown:

Engine died in Canada at 78 K miles...$6500.

3 windows have gone out at $550 each = $1650. Still waiting for front passenger window.

Air conditioning compressor $2200.

Internal thermometer $225.

This is over $10,000 in repairs. My 99 SAAB is worth $3000. HAHAHAHAhAhaha

A million miles...are you joking me??? I will be driving my SAAB for a long time to work and back, to bowling tourneys, and whatever else I need. I like having my satellite radio in the SAAB and I might even fix my broken speakers one day.

I have 121,000 miles on my SAAB and 85,000 miles on my engine. I plan on driving it until Anthony is in Kindergarten. This is my SAAB story...It is not about the aircraft precision. Big deal the key is next to the emergency brake.

Down the home stretch

2007-02-28T08:35:00.000-05:00

Well here we are 88 days after finding out there was something in my head. The past 88 days could have been 88 years as slow as parts of it has gone. I will be returning to work on Monday and I feel great. There are some serious changes inside my head...I am sure that the tumor was having several effects on me other than headaches.

Yesterday Teresa had a doctors appointment and we walked through Erlanger and said hi to everyone. It was great to see everyone...better than great. I am so humbled by all of the support and kindness from everyone...I know I have said this 30 times on this BLOG but it is amazing. I have been working on thank-you cards and have mailed out 80. I have another 120 to go before Saturday.

The weather is nice here right now...It is going to be in the 70's today and I am going to try to get a little work out in...hopefully with Teresa. We have a pile of errands to run.

No Pain pills

2007-02-25T21:42:00.000-05:00

Sorry it has been so long since I have blogged. Two amazing things happened yesterday. First I made it through the entire day without a pain pill. Second I made up a joke:

Q - What is the worst thing you can hear on a first date?

A - Hi, I am Chris Hanson from Dateline NBC.

If you have seen to catch a predator you are laughing. If you haven't you are saying "who is Chris Hanson?"

I plan on returning to work on Monday March 5th. I really think I will be ready and am excited to get to work feeling well. My work has been so good to me and I really don't feel like I have done my best work. I have a strong desire to get back and do well.

As much as I want to get back to work I am going to miss all of the time I have had with Teresa and the boys. The boys are changing so fast...Preston is laughing and Anthony is learning so much.

I have received so many great cards and surprises in the mail. Last week I got a package from the Fantasy Football Guys. I have been in the same league since 1993 and I am the 3rd or 4th newest guy in the league. The package had 14 DVDs...13 football movies and caddy shack and a gift card for Best Buy.

Off to watch the Oscars...

President's Day

2007-02-19T21:04:00.002-05:00

Today was President's Day. I know it is a day made for sales at the Mall. However, I do like to reflect and in my restaurant days I used to always ask people who is your favorite president. I have voted for the President 5 times and have only picked one winner:

1988 - Mondale

1992 - Perot

1996- Clinton-winner

2000- Gore

2004- Edwards

I wreak of liberal. However, I really do have views on both sides. Every year I usually recognize Abe Lincoln as my favorite president...I gravitate toward people dealing with things that no one will touch like slavery and the civil war. I have always named JFK as the most overrated president. My learning point for myself this year is that I may have been wrong about JFK. At the civil rights museum I learned a lot of brave things that he did to help with the "movement". I have moved him of the bad list...I am sure his family will be happy. Here's to the USA.

The staples are out

2007-02-17T13:39:00.000-05:00

Well...the staples are out. We were feeling froggy and I asked Teresa to take them out and like a champ she broke out the tool and did it. 18 were easy and 4 stunk. My scar is going to be almost un-noticeable once the swelling goes down and we get all the blood out. So if anyone needs staples removed and don't want to pay a co-pay...Teresa can do it.

Some good some bad

2007-02-17T09:19:00.000-05:00

A couple of times over the past three days I have thought I am close to 100%. I have been going through the balance game of to pain pill or not to pain pill. That is where you are guessing a little pain or jacked up on pain pills? So Friday I flew a little too close to the sun as I skipped pain pills until about 6pm...Not so genius...I lost the balance game in the PM. However, I still am recovering well.

I am feeling good strength and energy most of the days. The face and mouth pain are by far worst part. It has been great to have time to recover at home. I will be returning to work either the 5th or 12th of March based on how things are progressing.

We have been getting off the mountain for a couple of hours a day and that has been great to gauge where I am at. Have a great weekend...

Day 9

2007-02-15T19:37:00.000-05:00

So it has been 9 days since my surgery and recovery is going well. The upside is:

My fatigue issues are going away fast. I have only had to take 1 nap in the last 3 days.

Balance issue are becoming rare.

I have lost 16#'s in 9 days.

My back and hips are healed.

I feel sharp in the head.

I have cut back to only 1 pain pill at a time.

The downside is:

My mouth still feels like I just got out of the dentist and my lips and lower face tingle. It is hard to distinguish between mashed potatoes and the inside of my cheek.

The temporal muscle is sore. No Joke Sore.

BM's and I don't mean buttermilk. I have serious and painful cramps when I have a BM...At least I am having them.

The plan over the next few days is to get these staples (22) out, do my face therapy exercises, build a routine, build energy and start on Thank you cards.

I hope everyone is doing well.

Being a good dad

2007-02-14T12:05:00.000-05:00

I really want to make sure that I am helpful with whatever our kids find passion in. So you can only imagine how excited I was this morning when Anthony came out this morning and asked me to teach him how to do a headspin. He got a couple of rotations but I forget to warn him about the messed up hair and how dizzy he might be. I think he found the shirt in our shed. You can see his Pooh practice mat in the background.

Home on the Range

2007-02-12T20:59:00.000-05:00

Me, Me, Me and Bumpy McGee...Teresa and I made it home today from Memphis less than a week after brain surgery. It took us two days and on each day we stopped to eat. Teresa felt bad when she hit the bumps and think she might of missed two. The ride was not nearly as hard as I thought it was going to be. It took a lot out of me but I wasn't in any additional pain. Today it was exciting to see the boys. They were happy!!! After a half an hour and a couple of pain pills I began my naps...6 hours today. I was nice to be in my own bed.

I see the next week as a steady dose of sleep, short walks and warm baths. I really feel ahead of schedule and that I will be back in no time. Teresa has the tool ready to remove staples this weekend.

The official tumor type was a Schwannoma (nerve sheath tumor). It is very rare and is likely to reoccur. However, it will be a year down the road before Dr. Robertson will decide if we need more surgery and if we do it will be a radiation called gamma knife a year or two down the road. However, the gamma knife is a lot easier than the real knife he used this time.

Glad to be home.

Don't call it a comeback

2007-02-10T09:54:00.000-05:00

So here it is only 4 days after brain surgery and I am sitting in my hospital room typing on my BLOG. I can not say enough about the care and support I have had...I really do feel lucky.

You never know what you are going to feel like or what the recovery is going to be... before the surgery I read articles about the headaches, the balance issues and the potential side affects. I have really experienced some pains this week. The headaches and the numbness is really the worst. I really have felt better everyday and think I may get out on Sunday and maybe home by Tuesday or Wednesday.

The worst thing is my mouth as it is not likely to return to normal. Dr. Robertson says that I will learn to live with it...It always feels like I am just getting out of the dentist.

Yesterday we were talking about taking the staples out. Dr Robertson was explaining how easy it is and is giving Teresa the tool to do it herself at home...Is this a good idea? I trust Teresa but maybe Russ and Ann Marie can help with this.

Ken left today and now it is just Teresa and I. I am glad Timora and Ken got to see how lucky I am with a great wife like Teresa and her family.

Have a great weekend.

Safety and Pain Control

2007-02-08T18:28:00.000-05:00

Tuesday's and Wednesday's plan was comfort. Today's plan is safety and pain control. This morning we learned that Tony may have permanent loss of feeling in the right side of his face and all of his teeth, not paralysis, so don't expect a droopy cheek. Regular dental checkups will become the norm. Timora and I brushed it off and said he would need worse news than that to get us down. Timora left today at 4pm.

Most of us have had really bad knock you off your feet headaches where we curl up in bed and sleep it off. Tony has this headache, no feeling in his teeth, and a bunch of people telling him he needs to walk, brush his teeth, and eat. Maybe the headache is from Mountain Dew withdrawal. Maybe not. He's taking the pain in stride. I think he knows that the post-op phase is over and it's time for recovery.

Tony's rock has been Teresa. She's been following doctors orders which isn't always what Tony wants to do. Last night Tony woke up at 11pm and said he wanted to wake up and talk for a while. Lucky for Tony, Teresa was within a few feet cramped up on a mini pull out bed ready to talk. Teresa and I are sharing the massage duties, careful not to pull out the IV in his neck. Tony said if I ever get a brain tumor he will reciprocate the love.

Without food, Tony tends to want to vomit his pain medication which is very painful. The problem is that having no sensation in his teeth is making him gag. Dr. Robertson said Tony will learn to deal with it. He chewed a piece of jello about 20 times not knowing whether or not it was ready to swallow.

For everyone's benefit, Tony will make a joke to let us know he's ok. No smiles, just a joke. He didn't even laugh at the balloon that came with flowers from Cathy. It said, "Hope you're fishin' REEL soon". Flowers also arrived from Sodexho which really brightens up the room. Unfortunately, there will be no sleeping off of this headache. He's going to have to walk, eat, shower, brush his teeth, and drive 6 hours to Chattanooga this weekend.

The official staple count was 20, not 40. Also, for those of you who received pictures, we learned why they didn't shave his head. New research says that having hair in the wound actually helps the healing process by acting as an antibacterial agent.

Much love in Tennessee,
Ken

Bravery

2007-02-06T17:12:00.000-05:00

People have different ideals for what bravery is. Some people think of firemen, others soldiers, women having babies, etc. I am not speaking of bravery in the sense of feeling no fear, rather bravery as a quality of spirit that enables someone to face danger or pain without showing fear.

As of 7am this morning, I will forever remember Tony as my symbol of bravery. I am so proud of him for the strength he showed for his family and friends as we surrounded him waiting to be wheeled off to surgery.

The entourage of Teresa, Timora, Bill, Ann Marie, Lyn, Jonathan, and myself remained calm up to this point. Then the tears came so Timora and I disappeared for a spell to get ourselves collected. Teresa was allowed into pre-op and shared in prayer with Tony and the surgical team. The wait begins.

Every hour or so we would receive an update:

8:38 surgery begins

Tony is doing fine, we’re approaching the tumor

Removing the tumor, Tony is doing really well

1:30 Closing him up

Then to my surprise the Wizard, uh I mean Dr Robertson arrives in the critical care waiting room. He is pleased. He tells us the 4.5cm tumor is not malignant and originated in his nerves that control his face. Basically he took the tumor out of its sheath. He explained that it was like taking out the inside of an orange while leaving the rind in tact. The reason he explains is that the sheath itself doesn’t grow and removing it would damage the nerves possibly causing double vision, paralysis in the face, etc. His estimate was that the tumor was 10 to 20 years old. Follow up will consist of annual CT’s and any new growth should it occur can be treated with a gamma knife

At about 2pm and in groups of three, we were allowed to visit Tony in the Neuro ICU. He looked like he got in a fight and didn’t do too well. There was about a 10 inch incision from the top of his head to the bottom of his earlobe. He got gypped on the haircut and his hair is woven in and out of the 40 or so staples. In a few months you won’t even notice it. He managed some smiles and was at least able to see everyone before succumbing to the Morphine and falling asleep. No question he’s in a ton (no long o) of pain. We were going to skip the 5:30 visitation and let him rest but the nurse said that Tony kept asking for Teresa and felt it was important for her to return. He didn’t want us to change the channel from People’s Court because it was the same channel as American Idol. He’ll have to watch it alone because it’s not during visiting hours.

So, where did this bravery come from? I’ve seen Tony more nervous going into a wrestling match.

I believe it came from the incredible amounts of love and support that was shown from people around the country, many of whom Tony has never met. I know that Tony is forever changed. In a couple of month’s he’ll be back at work enhancing the lives of the people he works with and forever influencing all those who know him.

With all my love,

Ken

Everything is fine

2007-02-06T05:53:00.000-05:00

In my first e-mail out to my family I kept telling them everything is fine. Well it really is...We are 10 minutes from leaving the hotel to go to the hospital. Teresa was up before the 4:30 am wake-up call and so was I. I feel lucky today because I have the best friends and family that anyone could ask for...I am so ready to see you all and laugh about these final days and talk about things like diner last night when the server dropped about 20 rib bones into Teresa's purse. For now I am going to suck it up and go get some brain surgery. Thanks and I love you all.

Next Stop..."The Wizard"

2007-02-05T18:12:00.000-05:00

Last night we started driving to Memphis at 11:30 pm. We had a great time at Kendall and Diedre's house. I won $4.00...Ken didn't. Teresa was a work horse on the drive...she drove the first three hours and the I finished it. We got to the hotel at 4:30am. and Timora called us at 5am to say her plane was delayed. I went to pick her up and let Ken and Teresa sleep in a little at 8am. She got in at 9:25am and we took a tour of Memphis on the way back to the hotel...We all went to The Peabody Hotel and watched the Duck, we looked at Jillians, ate some lunch and went to the civil rights museum. I had a good time. My doctors visit was fairly painless and we were out in 2 hours...they put us in a hotel instead of staying in the hospital. I check in at 5:30am with hopefully my posse. By 7:30 am surgery should be on the way.

We are going to Corky's tonight and to the mall so I can get some slippers (house shoes as
Teresa says)...

Ken is going to be the official surgery photographer...so I hope to have some pictures up by Thursday or Friday.

Thanks again to everyone!!!!!!

We are packing up for Memphis

2007-02-04T09:32:00.000-05:00

Here is the Schedule for the next few days:

Sunday February 4th

Noon - Pictures of Anthony and Preston

3pm - Superbowl Party

11pm- Leave for Memphis (Teresa, Ken and I)

Monday February 5th

7:30 am - Pick up Timora from the Memphis Airport

Goto the Hotel, get some breakfast, some site seeing (Graceland from the outside and

hopefully a couple of hours at the civil rights museum)

2:30 pm -Check into Methodist University Hospital for testing (Blood, UA, Chest x-ray and a

MRI).

6:00pm - Get out of the hospital and go to dinner with (Ken, Timora, Teresa, Lyn, Jonathan,

Janice?, Jennifer?, Ann Marie)...Most likely at Corkey's BBQ, Blues City or Neeleys.

Rendezvous is closed on Mondays.

10:00pm-Back to hospital for a good night sleep.

Tuesday February 6th

7:30 am - Lets do this already...No joke...It is time to get the egg out.

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I have set up Timora, Teresa and Ken to Post on my Blog. I am hoping to have them update while I am a little tied up. I may post Monday when we get to the hotel.

Wow-a-thon

2007-02-03T21:56:00.000-05:00

It is amazing what people can do. I can't believe the generosity of people...especially Lyn and everyone I know. Going to the Ton-a-thon I was sure that I was going to be absolutely uncomfortable. From the second we entered I just spent my time enjoying all of the people and the encouragement. Lyn's work was unbelievable...I am beyond thankful. My families expenses are covered...we are worry-free going into this surgery (from a financial standpoint)...Our friends and family raised over $21,000...WOW!!! I can't believe it...we can't believe it. My recovery will consist of writing a lot of thank you cards. I don't know where it all has come from but I personally want to thank everyone and will find a way over the next ten weeks...

Off to the THON

2007-02-03T11:19:00.000-05:00

Teresa and I are getting ready to go to the Event Lyn has put together (on her birthday for someone else). It really just hit me that in a couple of hours I will be seeing a lot of our friends that we haven't seen for a while. I am not really prepared for this mentally.

I posted some formula coupons on e-bay today. I can't believe that people will pay cash for coupons.

I will hopefully post a picture or two tonight from the Ton-a-thon.

Off to give Preston a bath...aka Mr. Smiley.

Done working for a little while

2007-02-01T21:15:00.000-05:00

Well today was my last day of work for a couple of months or so. It had the feeling of either I am going on vacation or I am leaving forever. You know the feeling where you are making sure everything is covered and hurring off so you can pack for your cruise. The problem is I am going to pack pajamas. Teresa and I have a full schedule from now until surgery. It should come up really fast...I am really quite calm and ready to get to the hospital and get this done so I can recover and get to the other side. I have so many things I want to do after this surgery.

Teresa and Timora will be keeping my BLOG upto date while I am layed up.

This is the best thing that has ever happened to me?

2007-01-30T22:06:00.000-05:00

Before I offend anyone. My Children, Wife and family are very special to me and I am not saying in any way that my tumor is better than you or the events that brought us together. However, this is the best thing that could have ever happened to me. I have learned so many things in the past 2 months. The lessons have changed my life more than any of the fantastic books I have read, any work lesson or anything else.

My early lessons from Jeff Morgan, Tony Humphrey, Peter Kehayes and my Mother have led me down a path of development that has become routine. They all in their own ways taught me to invest in myself and give it to others. Share Knowledge. My mother taught me the invaluable lessons of how to treat and not judge others. People are the most valuable asset in our lives. Surround ourselves with people who are smarter than ourselves. The lessons go on and on and I think about these people everyday.

I am a cynic and can be sarcastic but have always tried to help the people I work with to get better. Teresa will tell you that I just want to feel loved. I think it is something that I have always wanted to feel. I am never satisfied with the amount of love that I feel.

Going through this experience has shown me just how much I am loved and how people really can be. The e-mails and calls...the encouragement from everywhere...financial support...I am really over whelmed with the love and energy that has been given to me and my family. It is unbelievable and has affected me in every way. I will approach my days with a different level of appreciation for the people in my life and will try to make a dent in repaying the lessons I have learned from this to all who I can impact. There is no way I can show how thankful I am and love you all back. I am so Lucky to be involved and linked to the people in my life and unfortunatly I may not of realized it had I not had this tumor.

Down the home stretch

2007-01-29T20:42:00.000-05:00

I had no idea that when I went to bed last night that today would be an emotional day. However, when I woke up at 5am...I realized that in a week I am going to have brain surgery. I teared up in the shower and when I pulled into work at 6:15. I really had no idea that this could be a tough week. Lyn gave me a card that said she thought I was brave with a rock that said Bravery. I guess I am brave in that I have been able to work, smile, be a Dad and live like little is wrong...while I have an egg pressing on my brain stem. I look back at the past month and can't believe I am in the home stretch.

I have been wanting to write about all of the wonderful things I have learned from this tumor. It sounds like sarcasm but I really do think it is one of the best things that has ever happened to me...I will explain it tomorrow because I want to look back in a month and see if I have changed my mind.

Thanks Susan

2007-01-27T15:34:00.000-05:00

Yesterday my head was killing me and Susan offered to work this Saturday for me. I am thankful that she offered as I felt horrible today. These headaches are getting old. I only have 4 more days of work before I am off. I am getting excited to see Timora and Ken in Memphis. This will be the 2nd time I have ever watched the Superbowl with Ken. The last time was 9 years ago. It was Superbowl XXXII between the Broncos and Packers. We had spent the day skiing on Mt Bachelor and went to a hole in the wall place that had an all you can eat spaghetti feast at half time (food came out at the 3rd quarter). It was an epic game...when John Elway got hit and did a helicopter into the end zone. Cathy was new to the family and had been enjoying a little of the northwest fermented juices and when we were driving home she kept saying she was hot. She took of layers till...well lets just say it was a memorable Superbowl that I will never forget.

My eye hurts

2007-01-26T13:05:00.000-05:00

Today I have a serious headache. I am really enjoying American Idol. Wednesday I watched New York and had a rough time coming up with an accurate ranking due to falling asleep a couple of time during the show and I didn't record it.

I am done with all pre-doctor work...No more paperwork. No more giving blood. I have been cleared so the next stop is Memphis a week from Sunday. My doctors appointment went well yesterday...The doctor was kinda funny when addressing my high blood pressure (135/91) and cholesterol (225). He said "Don't worry about it you have much bigger issues to worry about". Lets take care of things in order and I guess the next stop is brain surgery.

In Atlanta I saw the best documentary that addressed racism and children. It was shot in 1970 and I would recommend seeing it. You can watch it at: http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/divided/etc/view.html

I am sorry I didn't tell you about it 36 years ago I just saw it.

Have a great weekend.

I am going to be in big trouble today

2007-01-24T06:13:00.000-05:00

I sat in my room on my computer and listening to my zune wide awake until 2:45am. I couldn't sleep or get comfortable. My class needs to be exciting or I am going to be very tired with my 3 hours of sleep. Today's theme is Coffee, Coffee and maybe mix in a Dew if I have to.

I may need to go see Juan Valdez this morning on my may to "Spirit of Diversity" class.

That's it Memphis?

2007-01-23T22:54:00.000-05:00

I am in Atlanta again at a horrible hotel. I have a twin bed that takes up most of the room. Lyn and I went out to dinner and I am still full and we ate 4 hours ago. We watched American Idol and I was a little disappointed in Memphis...I thought there might be a few more disasters and a few more gems...My top 4 is:

1. Mr Head...looked like a fat devil.

2. The girl singing Aretha

3. Fidel Castro...

4. Blondie from Colliersville

Overall I think it is a good season so far. This morning Teresa got up with me at 6am after being up since 3:30 with Preston...We drank coffee and had a great chat for an hour and nine minutes while my car warmed up.

The surgery is coming fast all of a sudden. It was felt slow as molasses until this week. It is less than two weeks away. I have one more doctors appointment on Thursday and I give blood on Friday and I am officially ready. Lets get it done!!!

Timora the explora

2007-01-21T10:06:00.000-05:00

Saturday we took Anthony and Preston to meet up with some friends that were bowling. There were lots of kids and the excitement of the bowling center. Anthony started out a little shy wanting to cling to Teresa or I for about 15 minutes...and then he was all in to it. He got to roll a couple of balls...with some help. Anna (4) and Tori (3) were standing with him talking "hi baby" and he tried to kiss Tori on her lips. They ran away. I am a Dad. A bonifide, for real, 100% Dad. I am so excited about the future of games, choir or D&D club...I really don't care I just love to see those boys happy. I am sure Teresa feels the same and the adventure together is special and I am going to enjoy it while it is happening.

Every morning at 8am Teresa and Anthony have been watching Dora and to watch Teresa yelling at Swiper or singing the map song is great. Anthony is getting into it almost as much as his Mom.

Every time I see Dora I think about Bowling with Brian and every week he would compare Timora to Dora. I really don't see the similarities...Dora doesn't drink coffee, she is tat less, she walks everywhere and this morning she was talking to frogs. However, I still think about my sister when I see Dora.

Enjoy your holiday...Championship Sunday!!!

I am the Big Tipper

2007-01-18T20:45:00.000-05:00

Today I had my pre-op certification physical. My Doctor was extremely over excited and careful on his notes and testing. I am talking:

Blood Pressure 3 times (twice in the left arm and once in the right) FYI 135 over 82...best in 6 months!!!!

Chest X-ray

Listen to my breathing from every angle

and so on

I was at the doctor for 3 hours and I go back in the morning for labs and have another appointment to talk about my labs next week. No joke...he gave me 5 cards and asked me to give one to everyone who works on me and wants to make sure he gets detailed notes on the surgery and how I do. He is an experienced doctor??? I am okay with all the detail everyone is taking with me...However, where was the detail when I went to the doctor 6 years ago for headaches or asked 2 doctors about my jaw or the cramping in my face? I am really not bitter or even think the tumor would have been found earlier...It is like a server changing their service level because they have a big tipper...OOOOO big tipper is here I better put my game face on and get my crumb scrapper out of the car. I feel like the big tipper.

Bowling season is over

2007-01-18T07:26:00.000-05:00

Last night I finished my league for the year. I had quite a tumble the last 10 weeks. My average dropped 5 pins in 10 weeks...221 to 216. I stunk. It was a sad feeling leaving and I was a little emotional walking to the car. Everyone was so nice and showed genuine concern as I was leaving.

I gave blood on Tuesday for my surgery...I will give again the end of next week. I will have a litter of Tony Blood shipped to Memphis per Dr Robertson.

Okay...American Idol made Seattle look like a bunch jokes. If I hadn't spent some time in the Emerald City I might think Yikes???? I can assure you they will make Memphis look great...there is a lot of music history and good singers...(Bible Belt...church singers). Next week millions of people will be saying "I really would like to go to Memphis"...sorry Seattle.

Last night I can only give a top 3:

Portland dude with the Fro...really Troutdale

Sixteen year old Jazzy with the strong voice

Lisa Leslie...Only 3% of the general population will get it but its funny.

I am off to work and get my pre-op release physical. Wish me luck.

Season 6 begins

2007-01-17T07:28:00.000-05:00

I have never been shy about my passion for American Idol. This year I am
planning on Teresa and I having a little finale party. Last night did not disappoint me as I shed my first tear at the 6th minute of the show when the girl wanted to inspire people like Jewel. My top 5 from day one:

1. Somewhere over the rainbow girl.
2. Crack baby.
3. Colombian girl doing Blondie
4. pimple boy with the scraped up nose
5. Army Girl

Tonight is day 2. I can't wait for tonight. Can I get a TV into the ICU?

When I got home last night it took 30 seconds for Anthony to tell me MORE CANDY ten times and he just told me again. Why couldn't Mom have taught him more carrots?

Have a great day...

Mom leaves in the morning

2007-01-15T20:53:00.000-05:00

Mom just went to bed...She has had her final goodbyes to the babies. In less than 24 hours I will be turning Mom loose into the big bad world. It has been good having Mom here. I thought it might be years before anyone other than Ken in my family would be in Soddy-Daisy. I am so relieved that Mom was able to see Anthony and Preston at their home. Mom taught Anthony several "tricks":

So handsome and so strong

several sign words (more, love and candy)

played a lot of basketball and other games

In mom's visit had several highlights:

Made two dinners (pot roast and pot roast)

bought two five pound bags of sugar

Knitted three hats

made 3 batches of peanut butter fudge

two batches of no bakes

Overall it was a good time. I am sure Mom is ready to have her own space back...Uncle Dan has a saying "Company is like fish, no matter how much you love it after a while it starts to stink" I love my Mom but I miss walking around the house naked.

Ken and Cathy

2007-01-14T07:04:00.000-05:00

Congrats to Ken and Cathy they are having a baby. This is the most excited I have ever been for another child to come into our family (that wasn't named Anthony or Preston). They told us with a video of the Pregnancy test...good idea, however a little graphic.

Mom and I are headed to Huntsville, AL for a bowling tourney. Wish us luck.

Last night Teresa and I got to go to dinner with Lyn, Casey, Brandon and Kelly... We had a great time but Teresa must have thought she was in college...When we got home she got a little sick...a lot sick and I don't think it was the Japanese food. During the night she kept saying "I am having such a good time" it made me think of Timora.

7 more games

2007-01-12T22:40:00.000-05:00

Here it is 8 teams and 7 more games...I am usually pretty reflective at this time of year...I am wrapped up in the end of the NFL...I, like many of my friends have a little let down at the end of the superbowl. This year the day after the superbowl...I check into the hospital for brain surgery. It is really ironic...probably more to me than anyone else.

Home from the ATL

2007-01-10T22:11:00.000-05:00

Peace up, A-town down. It is a saying that you would only get if spent some time in the dirty, dirty...South that is. We had a fun car road home although I think we might have teased JD a little much...He was trying to imitate the Bulls announcer from the 90's and when he said Michael Jordan his voice would crack like a girl so we made a little fun.

In doing some Brain research it turns out that I found a MRI of Homer Simpson's Brain.

We made it home just in time for bowling. I was fair...I was actually fine until the third game 237 and 217 until Gary and I started quizzing each other on Seinfeld trivia. I threw some bad shots trying to think of questions and answers during my back swing. 198 for 652.

I came home to the quietest home ever...Anthony and Preston asleep, Mom doing a crossword puzzle and Teresa finishing her James Frye Novel. I played a game of Quidler with Mom (lost for the 4th time in a row), ate a bowl of Lucky Charms and lights out in the next few minutes.

Today I got a nice Prayer card signed by some friends of my Mother in Law. Very thoughtful from some people I have never met.

It is just a phase

2007-01-10T06:52:00.000-05:00

About 10 years ago before I was completly loyal to the Barenaked Ladies...I was in this Jill Sobule and Poe phase. Well with my zune and an unlimited collection of music I am going through this wierd Regina Spektor phase...I am not trying to sell Regina I have just been enjoying her music.

I am still in Atlanta and just to vent for one second...There are 150 people at my meeting the meeting has to be in the 100K range for the two days with travel, meals and room space. Our company sent out an extensive wookbook of homework. It was an 18 page set of instructions to prepare you for the classes. When we get to the breakout rooms it turns out we are the only ones to complete the homework...am I nieve or is this the norm? The class moved at breakneck pace and would have been simple if the participants did the pre-work.

I worked out this morning. It was only a good workout because I got out of bed and went down and did it. Otherwise it kinda stunk. I really wasn't in the mood...I did 20 minutes on the treadmill.

Last night at dinner Jonathan was talking trash about his athletic prowless. We decided to have a race in the parking lot...50 yard race and I won by 20 yards...I was laughing thinking about the time Ken and I were racing in the parking lot of a mexican restaurant in Portland. Ken was in pretty good shape and was weighing in the 250 range. I barely had an edge and with Cathy at the finish line Ken took a headfirst diver skinning up his hands.

I am off to the meetings...6 days to American Idol...set your TIVO.

On the road...

2007-01-08T21:07:00.000-05:00

I remember when I was 21 years old working for Red Robin and I used to get so excited to go on a road trip. I couldn't understand people complaining about having to put up with the traffic or being away from home. I used to think and sometimes I still do think it is so nice to get away and do something different.

In the morning I am heading to Atlanta to go to a training class. I am excited about the class and I like the Hotel I am staying at...but I am just not that excited about being away from the family right now.

Today I was in one of the funniest interviews I have had in a long time. At Sodexho we are required to ask the same questions of all of the candidates. So before we hire a management position I craft the questions that we are going to ask. Today, Jonathan and I were interviewing a candidate with a corrections background and they never broke character. The character of if you ask me another one of those Tony Klein questions I am going to stab you. About half way through the interview I asked the question "What does diversity mean to you in the workplace?" and with a stoic glare they said "There is another one of those big words" Huff "I have been up since three". I wanted to bust at the gut...I have never been happier about having a headache.

I have to go eat the rest of the brownies...Teresa fell asleep.

My house is falling apart

2007-01-08T08:17:00.000-05:00

Last night a portion of my face went numb. I wasn't too scared as I was warned by the wizard as he was kinda surprised that it wasn't numb already. It felt like when you cross your eyes for too long you get that feeling on the bridge of your nose but on my face. Teresa rubbed my face until I fell asleep. I woke up with a hang over type headache.

Teresa is having pain in her lower right abdomen that was keeping her up. We are waiting for her doctor to call back before we go to the ER.

It is a sad day when the healthiest person in our house is Mom?????

Present day Dr Robertson

2007-01-07T10:28:00.000-05:00

Here is a present day picture of Dr Robertson. I will be getting some signed copies to sell on ebay...for the neurogeeks.

Now or Later

2007-01-07T09:42:00.000-05:00

It feels like I have known about my tumor for a year. It is amazing to think I have only known since November 28th. Time is not flying. I would really like to get this over with...there are so many things I want to get started on:

I want to lose my extra lbs.

I want to do a better job of communicating with my family.

I want to appreciate each day and approach each day with a mission.

I don't really stink at these things but I want to be a much better leader and I am going to put the work in.

At this point every person I know is aware that I have a brain tumor. From time to time I run into or speak with a friend who doesn't know. It is not a comfortable conversation.

"What are you doing for the Super Bowl?"

"I am getting brain surgery"

Anyway you slice it...it is shocking when you have to tell someone even though the shock for me is over and I am in reality. Speaking of reality...American Idol starts in 9 days.

11 more games

2007-01-06T19:03:00.000-05:00

It is always sad when we are down to the last 11 NFL games of the year. The tough thing is trying to work out trying to watch the games. You can't or I should say I can't hang out for 16 hours each weekend watching football. I have babies and a wife, I have a job and responsibilities. I am also not in a football crazy relationship where there is any importance of watching football. I have made it an art form to catch most of the playoffs each weekend usually in 4 hours vs 16. You have to learn what to miss and realize that it is okay to miss an occasional kickoff or the ending of a blowout. I have learned to ration...and sometimes I catch a little extra.

Bring your Mother to work day

2007-01-04T20:52:00.000-05:00

Today I took my Mom to work. Lyn made my Mom cry twice. I knew there was a chance so I warned her that Lyn was working on some things and I didn't want her to be alarmed at the ribbons. Lyn made these ribbons that are blue polka-dots and have a heart with TK 300 on it. I was surprised today by all the ribbons and the flyer's for Ton-a-thon (a bowling event that Lyn is putting together with a little help from her friends). Teresa and I are a humbled by the kindness and generosity of people. I am shocked!!! I have no idea how I am going to thank everyone.

Mom and I spent the first hour touring all of the areas. She met a bunch of people and we made it to my office. I had a meeting at 9:15 and 10 so I dropped her with the computer and we met for lunch at noon. After lunch I left her again and came back to her at 4pm and I wrapped up my day. So needless to say take your mother to work day was a big success:

7 hugs for Mom
17 games of hearts
2 Starbucks
Free lunch with Tony (Chick-fil-A)

I hope everyone Else's take your mother to work day went well.

February 6th

2007-01-03T22:28:00.000-05:00

Well we are back from Memphis. Wow!!! Dr Robertson was amazing. It was so comforting to be with someone who can actually do the surgery. He spent 3 hours with Teresa and I going over the anatomy of the base skull, looking at our MRI results, and explaining what his approach will be. I was actually thinking I could do the surgery myself if I wasn't sleeping.

Don't get me wrong it is still brain surgery and he is the best brain surgeon in the world...but it was a big relief. We were at his office for 6 hours going over every detail from how I would be wearing panty hose to prevent blood clots to how they would keep Teresa informed with phone calls every hour to the visiting hours in ICU.

Dr Robertson was confident and humble. He used regular language included a couple of profanities in describing some of the practices of "regular brain surgeons". He told us that residents would be there but they won't touch a thing..."this is my surgery" he said. He also said if I had the wrong team they could really jack me up. I also may not need radiation depending on the success. He did guarantee me the biggest headache imaginable.

The cut will be from between my ear and jawbone to the top of my head. I should be able to recover in 8-10 weeks at the most. The best news is that I am going to live.

Our surgery will be on February 6th at 7:30 AM. Out with the Egg!!!

Were off to see the Wizard

2007-01-01T15:17:00.000-05:00

I am the Scarecrow and Teresa is Dorothy. Dr Robertson he is the Wizard.

I have a lot of emotion from excitement to fear. I know it is only a consultation and I am prepared for the wizard to be like other wizard's with their wizard attitude. I am excited to get some answers...Like when and how.

I will make some calls on the way home from Memphis. I will give a detailed explaination of what will be happening here on Wednesday Morning.

Teresa and I am so thankful of all of the support and kindness from everyone. I am so lucky to have so many caring people in my life. THANKS.

Football hero (Troy's favorite player)

2006-12-31T23:08:00.000-05:00

This weeks leading passer in the NFL...That's right Kurt Warner. He had not played in 10 weeks. Look for a new contract next year and a new clipboard.

Now I owe Kendell $24

2006-12-31T09:00:00.000-05:00

Yesterday when I was driving to work I had three thoughts zipping through my head:

1. The similarities between getting a brain tumor and winning the lottery.

You pinch yourself every 30 minutes or so and say "is this really happening"?
People you haven't seen for a long time are in contact (this is the good part).
Everyone is nice...really nice.

2. How am I going to find a way to see UFC 66. How am I going to talk Teresa into me paying $40 to watch a fight at 1am?

3. I really want to play poker before surgery.

So last night Teresa and I went out on a "date" and Mom watched the babies. We were minding our business playing megatouch when we got a call from Diedre inviting us to come to her house and watch the fight...We drove down to Georgia and they had a huge bon fire in the backyard...They have a great poker table and we put together a poker game while we were watching the fights.

Our date turned into Teresa sleeping on the couch and I was watching the Ortiz vs Lidell fight and playing poker...I am so romantic. We had the best time...I really like Diedre, Kendall and their family. I wish we spent more time with them. I really am liking all of our friends and families right now. I am like a walking chick flick with all of the positive thoughts about everyone in our lives.

Happy New Year...Everyone be Safe. I am off hahahahahahahahahahahaha...to all of my restaurant friends.

He really has written the book.

2006-12-30T14:24:00.000-05:00

I keep saying that Dr. Robertson has written the book on cranial base surgery. He really has and you can buy it on amazon for $279. I guess it has to cost a little extra as less people will read this than "million little pieces".

I like sugar...so does my Mom

2006-12-29T20:34:00.001-05:00

There are many phobias:

Claustrophobia - fear of closed in spaces
Agoraphobia - the fear of wide open spaces
triskadekaphobia- the fear of the number 13
acrophobia - the fear of heights
sucrophobia - My Mom's fear of running out of sugar. Wow...Her first day in the house I had 8 pounds of sugar. Now granted we had Christmas and made candy...But by her second day she was asking about the sugar par.

A couple of days ago she walked to the country store to buy a 5 pound bag of sugar. I came home from work and there is a big bag of sugar...????? We still had 2 pounds and she was worried about running out...SUCROPHOBIA. She has only left the house once in the last three days and it was to get sugar?

I think I am flagged at my Primary Care Doctor...I stopped by today to ask for some help with insurance stuff...I was in talking to the doctor in 10 minutes without an appointment. This has happened the last couple of times. Two medical things I have learned:
1. If you go to the ER and say you are having chest pain they will get you in right away.
2. Go to you doctors office while you have a brain tumor and you get in right away without an appointment.

Teresa and I have been doing a good job running. Teresa got a Garmin for Christmas and it is humbling to see how we are really running. 12 minute miles and 2.1miles...yikes. The other humbling thing about our run tonight was we were running downtown and I felt like we were cruising, I had the music going...zipping past people...and I look in the windows next to me and I see a big fat guy doing 12 minute miles. I feels good but we have some work to do.

I am getting nervous about Tuesday. Have a good weekend.

Restless Night

2006-12-27T06:02:00.000-05:00

Last night I went to bed with the computer and had no chance of falling asleep. I had a zillion thoughts zipping through my head. I started to get anxious about my appointment with Robertson next Tuesday. I am trying not to be excited about it like I was with Megison. Today I am starting my work with the insurance company.

I am really ready for summer to be here and have this all be over.

See what I mean...I just read what I written above and it is all over the place. How did my son get the nickname Bubba? Are you kidding? There is nothing good that comes from people calling you Bubba...There are two pictures of people named Bubba:
1. I am a Dumb Hick who is fat with a chew and tossing a Natural Light out of my beat up old
pick-up on the way to ditching school.

2. "Why don't you throw him into the cell with Bubba"

That is it. I understand the family here in Soddy wanting some country boys but we may have the Bubba battle. I may have to get medieval before Preston turns into Cooter...He is way too close to being called Lumpy as it is. Are you joking...Here are my son's Bubba and Lumpy. I don't think so.

My zune is great. I might be addicted...I really want some serious in-ear headphones and to workout just so I can listen to it or take a trip so I can watch so video on it.

Back to work

2006-12-26T07:11:00.000-05:00

I write this morning knowing I have so much work to do this morning. We had a nice Christmas. It was great to have everyone here at our place when Anthony woke up. He was bright eyed and excited...However, this Christmas a war has been issued.

Lyn and Casey thought it would be cute to get Anthony a drum machine. Hahaha...the problem is that I love the drum machine and I am getting into trouble because I can't quit playing it.

All of the gifts were great and I love having toys to play with like my new zune and kitchen gear...I got a Food Processor so I can do a better job on making Preston's foods than I did on Anthony's. I can also make some Humus and stuff.

At dinner Russ said an awesome prayer that put me in tears...The kind I can hide because he stopped at the perfect time.

FYI...I love football.

Twas the night before christmas

2006-12-24T21:47:00.000-05:00

Today I hired a new sous chef...her name is Mom. She mostly did dishes today as we made treats today. She did make peanut butter candy and mashed potato candy while I made cappuccino crinkles, divinity, pizza and hot cocoa. It was a good day...Teresa and I went on another run and the babies were all good. I was a butt for a little while as I seem to have put my patience in storage and I am as sensitive as Ken watching Terms of Endearment.

This may be the first Christmas in 38 years that I haven't opened any presents before Christmas. I got to watch a whole football game today...it was great! Mom was sitting with me and at the end of the game, just before overtime she asked me some questions about the game. It reminded me of watching football with Troy without the making fun of the back-up quarterback or the announcers obvious statements.

Yesterday I went to the park with Mom and Anthony. It was so fun...We went to a great playground with all kinds of slides and forts that connect with bridges and stuff...well Mom cracked her head on a board...she has a knot on her head that anyone reading this will here about...so I am just giving you a head start. It is hard to complain about a bump on your head to a guy with a tumor so she may be saving it for you.

Have Fun.

Body, mind and beer

2006-12-24T07:54:00.000-05:00

I began my training yesterday with a run with Teresa. We did 22 minutes around a track in Soddy. I felt good at the time...However, by last night my quads were sore and this morning my whole body is sore. Ken always says "work out hard enough that we still want to work out again". It never feels like you want to go back the next day after a period of inactivity. Teresa and I have been kinda snippy at each other and decided to go out together last night. Mom watched the babies and we went to Northshore and each had a beer. She had a Purple Haze and I had a Widmer Hefe. That's right Widmer in Chattanooga. It was nice to get out and have some quality one on one time and try to understand each other. We also went to Stone Cup and had a cup of coffee...what a different scene from the morning or afternoon. It was a younger crowd but the place was filthy with cups and plates and crumbs in all the chairs. The dirt didn't bother me as much as the 3 people behind the counter...one making coffee (very good by the way. Timora and Troy would even like this place), one drinking an iced coffee just chillin' and the other cruising the internet waiting for her next customer. Anyway we had a good time and are happy for the oppertunity to get away.

Chistmas Eve on a Football Sunday??? Is this a double holiday? It is for me...Today I am making divinity and cookies, cleaning the kitchen, getting a workout in and then...Football...Then I am making a big batch of hot cocoa. Have a great holiday.

Training for surgery

2006-12-22T19:35:00.000-05:00

In the conversation I had with Dr. Robertson's office on Wednesday they asked a lot of questions about what kind of shape I am in. Weeellllll...I have been putting a lot of thought of into getting into shape and losing the baby weight. I have trained for a triathlon, bike rides, wrestling, and just to get in shape but training for a surgery. I asked "can I run"? She said, "how about a brisk walk or light lifting"? I can't just walk. So today I have decided it is time to get off my butt and get some activity and eat better. It is Christmas and I may cheat a little Monday but I will get a little sweat everyday and minimize the sodium and sugar. I am 100% off the dew...I was doing well until last week. The fact is this may be the most important training month of my life.

Bowling last night

2006-12-21T06:40:00.000-05:00

Last night Teresa went to bowling with me. It is the first time she has gone to bowling with me for a long time. I stunk...620...losing all my games. I really wasn't relaxed. I have been bowling well this year averaging 220 all year and cashing in everything. My mother made an observation earlier in the year when I told her I was bowling well she said, "maybe its because you have less stress in your life". I started to note that the more relaxed and less stress I had the better I bowled. Maybe there is a connection.

It was nice to have Mom here to watch the babies...we got some very positive news yesterday.

I spoke with Dr. Robertson's office in Memphis and they favor that my tumor is benign and think I could be out of the hospital in a week or so. I learned the following:

Surgery 6-10 hours
wake me up in recovery
ICU 24-72 hours
Move to floor and walk within a day
go home soon.

Dr. Robertson only does base skull tumors (over 500). I think we should start a pool on the surgury date... $5 a person and have prizes for closest to date of surgery and hours in ICU...you know the fun stuff like when people have babies.

Roller Coaster

2006-12-20T16:55:00.000-05:00

As a child I loved roller coasters. Ken and I used to talk and try to "crack each other up"...a term he claims to have coined. As an adult trying to figure out what is going to happen with my brain surgery it stinks. Here is the 14 day roller coaster:
November29- Get dizzy and blurred vision...Teresa makes me go to the doctor. I get a CT and
they say I have an abnormal variance. The doctor said he would bet me $1,000
it was nothing. I agreed and would not take the bet.
November30- I feel fine...I only go to the follow-up because of Teresa. I knew I was fine. I
went through all the testing and was told I need to eat better. No way!!! I
agreed to get a MRI only to prove I was fine.
December 1st- I notified my family that I was going through some testing. The theme was I am
fine don't worry.
December 4th- Get the MRI. Radiologist missed my vain and burns my arm with Iodine.
December 6th- We get the call. Teresa gets the call...you know the call. We are given an appointment with Dr. Megison for December 21st. Teresa's sister
Ann-Marie was fantastic. She drove 2 hours to our house and sent a copy
of our results to Richmond,VA where she has some friends in Neuro.
December 7th- We begin trying to get an earlier appointment. We get encouraging news from
Virginia that it is a tumor that will require surgery. We believe it is going to
a fairly straight forward and are encouraged by all the great things we have
heard about Dr. Megison.
December 8th - 12th- We call Dr. Megison's office 12 times along with help from Erlanger and
Lyn's father and whoever else called. We get an appointment with Dr Megison.
December 13th-We get to see Dr. Megison. We heard he was mean...but who cares...he is the
best. Dr. Megison entered the room like...he was the king. He put my picture
up and gave us the bleakest of pictures. He showed us the location and told
us there on only 5 people that could operate and blah...It was bad. We were
referred to Dr. Jon Robertson the President of everything brain surgery.
After googling Dr. Wizard we felt good about him being the best brain surgeon
around.
December 14th- Ken came from Iowa and my mother made arrangements to come for a month.

I hate to skip ahead but today I spoke with Dr. Robertson's office. I am scheduled at 1:30pm on
January 2nd. I will fill in the blanks later. I am going bowling.

My first blog

2006-12-20T06:48:00.000-05:00

Hey everyone,
I thought it might be helpful for myself to create a BLOG. I am up early every morning and spend a lot of time reflecting and wasting time on the Internet looking at football, bowling and brains. I have always enjoyed learning new things and writing out my thoughts...so why not BLOG. I am starting this BLOG due to my health findings / Brain Tumor. I may write things that may look like am not taking things serious. However, I am as scared as any reasonable person would be after the shock of finding out you have a mass in your skull. Lets be real, my life is most everything I have dreamed about (without the room full of money and being geographically close to my family). My wife is everything I have desired from fun to be with to an excellent mother. I have two fantastic babies and my work is very satisfying. I will use this forum to share my thoughts of what it is like emotionally and update new information about the tumor without getting to graphic. I will try to not go more than a couple days at a time without Blogging. This is part of my therapy.